ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess Love, Heartbreak, and Your First College Boyfriend (It’s Not That Deep… Until It Is) Let me set the scene: You’re a freshman. It’s syllabus week. The possibilities are endless. You’ve got your new campus ID, a tote bag full…Emily HessApril 9, 2025
ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess My Passport People I have a confession. I just got my first passport stamp — and I’m still kind of floating. For the first time ever, I got…Emily HessApril 6, 2025
ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess You Don’t Have to Marry Your Major Let’s take it back to 18-year-old me: wide-eyed, tragically optimistic and absolutely convinced I was going to be an English major until the day I…Emily HessApril 2, 2025
ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess Catching Flights, Not Feelings! I used to think there was all the time in the world. That there would always be another summer, another trip, another chance to say…Emily HessMarch 23, 2025
ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess Breaking Up with Instant Gratification I am not patient. I rush through books because I hate not knowing how they end. I refresh tracking numbers like it will make my…Emily HessMarch 16, 2025
ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess I Regret to Inform You That I Am Changing "You get all this advice, but you never actually change. It never sticks." This was said to me recently—and honestly? They weren’t wrong. I have…Emily HessMarch 9, 2025
ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess The Rejection Collection I got rejected from my dream job last week. Not just a “that would be cool” kind of job—the job. The one I let myself…Emily HessMarch 2, 2025
ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess Ex Marks the Spot A year ago—almost to the day—I got back together with Kilometer. I wish I could say I’ve learned from that mistake, that I walked away…Emily HessFebruary 23, 2025
ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess You Weren’t Mine to Lose Some people come into your life to stay. Others arrive just long enough to teach you something you didn’t know you needed to learn. Blue…Emily HessFebruary 16, 2025
ColumnsConfessions of a Hot Mess The Ghosts in My Inbox No contact is a promise I can never seem to keep. Kilometer moved to a different country recently. My so-called “love of my life” (Yes,…Emily HessFebruary 9, 2025